Ever since men learned that they could control people through religion, governments and churches have been designed to brainwash their followers. Women are physically weaker than men. That's not my opinion, that's evolution. The only way for your ancestors to have made it this far is if the males in your family were able to physically subdue a female. The larger, stronger females did not breed as often The smaller females were easier to catch and control. But over the centuries. men realized that women were actually controlling them through sex.
Sex was considered normal and healthy for about 700 years after Jesus. But when the church learned that men will do anything for sex, they outlawed prostitution in 400 AD and again 700 AD. Before that, sex workers were part of Royal Court and even the Catholic Church. How else do you think they got men to join a religion that said they could never have sex? They had courtesans. Courtesans held a position in the high court for centuries, hence the name "court-esans." . But the Christians outlawed casual sex in 400 AD and the Muslims followed suit 3oo years later in 700 AD. Since then, women have been referred to as the "source of all evil." Other terms are "Sins of the Flesh". Women have been raised to be ashamed of their bodies. Some religions still require women to cover themselves up from head to toe. Men use this justification for violence against women. Men who have repressed sexual urges will become resentful and hateful towards women. But they will resent women with a smile because they also want to be "liked".
I can see it from their point of view: women would appear to be the source of all "evil" if I has sexual urges that I could not satisfy. Think on this for a moment: if we lived in a society where polyamorous beings were allowed to be polyamorous then you would not have cheating, lying and deception. But an open society is difficult to control.
For examples of control note how the church makes it so you must not have sex until marriage and you can't get married unless the church approves. It's a set up. Well, of course every man will fall short of hat unless they have another outlet like porn, bulimia, hypergymnasia (working out excessively), drinking alcohol, drinking caffeine, smoking nicotine, eating sugar, taking drugs, basically anything that will get your mind off your sexual urges. And there you have it: religion was born. Come admit your faults (which aren't faults at all) and drink wine instead. Or cookies. Or cake. Or coffee. Anything but sex.. Hopefully, you can see how the illusion of Christianity is propped up by sugar and caffeine.
You were born a human. You were born polyamorous. Polyamorous means that you have more than one sex partner during your life. Monogamous beings in nature are rare but they do exist. Doves, pigeons, ducks, penguins and basically 99% of all avians are monogamous.
Monogamous means that you only have one sex partner in your life ever. Even if you partner dies, you do not find another partner. That's how doves, cranes, Canadian Geese (and my mother) do it. But if you've ever had more than one sex partner in your life, then you are by definition polyamorous. You cannot go back. But you can pretend you are monogamous and convince yourself that sex is bad. But that is a real hard trip for the brain to handle. The brain evolved to be sexual by nature. Forcing a human to abstain for their natural state is a cruel but a good way to control them. Sex is like oxygen; when you don't have it, it's all you think about. But when you have enough oxygen, you almost never think about oxygen.
What if a person's thoughts and feelings do not align with what other people told them to believe? Conflict occurs. That conflict in the brain will cause depression. So if your brain isn't happy with what you're forcing on it, then "they" will make you take a psychotropic like an SSRI. SSRI's make your brain think everything is just dandy when in fact you feel they are not. Sure, you might have money, a job, a house, a car a wife but you won't be ever happy. Hence, take more Prozac.